Is it OK to have sex during pregnancy? Avoid all forms of sex — vaginal, oral and anal — if your partner has an active or recently diagnosed. However, couples who desire to have anal sex while they are pregnant have a lot of questions and doubts. Continue reading to know if anal sex is safe during. Is it safe to have sex while I am pregnant? Yes, it is safe for most women to have vaginal, oral, manual (using your hands), and anal sex.